Just want to put this out there as a friendly service announcement! Because of the words you use in anger. You may not mean them or you may but there maybe a better way to voice your thoughts than in words that will hurt. Unless it is your intention to hurt the person you’re talking to. I feel and this is just my opinion is that if you really love someone your not going to call them stupid or disgusting, fat pig, ugly or any other words that can truly damage a person. It hurts to have someone you love to call you these types of names. I wouldn’t call someone I love a name that was derogatory to who they are or how they look. If you were sensitive about your weight be it over or under, or maybe you feel your nose is too big or too small, maybe it’s a condition that you can’t help. I’ve known many people with skin conditions, any of these things and so many others you would just be intentionally hurting the person by saying something derogatory about stuff like that. You wouldn’t like anyone that said something to you that you were self conscious about so why do it to someone else.. I don’t understand how telling someone that they are fat, stupid, nasty, fat, disgusting. If anyone actually reads this and can explain to me how in any aspect is this the right thing to do! All it does is HURT the person that you supposedly love and then that person starts to wonder if it truly is love because if it was they wouldn’t say those things. I know people get tired and hurt themselves but does that give you an excuse to speak to others so vilely (I’m not even sure that’sa word but it makes sense to me)
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